E mai ușor să regreți decât să apreciezi – It’s easier to regret than to appreciate


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by Monica

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Morții primesc mai multe flori decat cei vii

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Și asta pentru că regretul este mult mai mare decât recunoștința. E mai ușor să regreți decât să apreciezi. Apreciezi mai mult când nu ai pe cineva, când îți dorești pe cineva sau după ce îl pierzi, dar niciodată suficient când ai acea persoană lângă tine. 

Poate și de aceea de multe ori rămânem singuri.

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Lăsăm garda jos, spunem că avem și uităm să ne bucurăm și să prețuim. Neglijăm persoana de lângă noi fără să vrem. Avem vaga impresie că totul ni se cuvine și că merităm chiar orice, indiferent de cum ne purtăm.

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Din păcate, sau mai bine din fericire, oamenii ne părăsesc, oferindu-ne lecții despre apreciere. Cât poate sta un om lângă tine dacă tot ce-i poți oferi tu e dezamăgire peste dezamăgire?

Înainte de a te vedea centrul universului, asigură-te că există stele în jurul tău, care nu vor avea chiar niciodată cum să dispară!

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The dead receive more flowers than the living ones

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And that’s because regret is far greater than gratitude. It’s easier to regret than to appreciate. You appreciate more when you do not have someone, when you want someone or when you lose him/her, but never enough when you have that person next to you.

Maybe that’s why we often stay alone.

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We leave the shield down, we say we have and forget to enjoy and cherish. We neglect the person next to us without wanting. We have the vague impression that everything is right to us and that we deserve everything, no matter how we behave.

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Unfortunately, or better, fortunately, people leave us, giving us lessons about appreciation.

How much can a person stand beside you if all you can offer is disappointment?

Before you see yourself the center of the universe, make sure there are stars around you that will never disappear!

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24 thoughts on “E mai ușor să regreți decât să apreciezi – It’s easier to regret than to appreciate

  1. Hello Monica, its lovely to hear from you. Thank you so much for the tweet, I appreciate that. I do hope school is going well. Here’s a hug and I hope to talk to you again… jc

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    • Hey! Hi, dear JC 🙂
      I am very fine, thanks. And I hope you’re well, too. I am learning hard for exams. In 2 weeks I’ll have the first 3 exams and I hope I’ll be prepared. Have a great Sunday, dear old friend.
      Mo-hugs and kisses ❤ ❤ ❤

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    • Multumesc frumos, Petru 🙂 Mi-e dor de voi, dar am atata de invatat 😦 Peste 2 saptamani am primele examene pentru Bac si nu-mi vad capul de treaba. Dar ma descurc.
      Sa ai o duminica asa cum vrei tu, prieten drag ❤

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  2. “E mai ușor să regreți decât să apreciezi.” How true that is. It’s good to be reminded of it. So it’s a good time to say, together with your other followers, how much I appreciate it when you find time in your busy life to ‘talk’ to us. xxx

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    • Many thanks, R 🙂
      I took a little break from learning to write some thoughts. Glad you liked it. Hope you are well 🙂
      Mo-hugs and kisses 😀

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  3. Hi Mo, such wise words. It is easy to take the people in our lives for granted. I hope you are well and enjoying the winter. How has the winter been in Romania? Right now it is cold and snowy here in Canada. Sending you light and love, Roland

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  4. Hello sweetie,
    Hope you are doing good.
    Dead receive more flowers than living, this is deep. Great post and very true. We often neglect what we have and who we have.
    Lots and love and best wishes to you xx

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  5. Happy birthday Monique. (Sometime around those days). I hope all is well. You should be finishing school soon I guess. What prospects from University?
    I hope all is well, and that you will come back to the blogosphere soon.
    B-hugs.

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