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Cei care ne arată lumina din beznă, sunt cei ce ne iubesc
Dacă un om e incapabil să-ți vadă lacrimile din inimă, nu-i permite să-ți vadă nici zâmbetul. Când unei persoane îi pasă de tine, va vedea fiecare detaliu din corpul tău, din tine. Oamenii care ne iubesc, își dau seama de suferința noastră. Văd furtuna din inimă, fără a fi nevoie să le arătăm ploaia.
Aceia care ne arată lumina din beznă, sunt cei ce ne iubesc. Puțini oameni sunt în stare să vadă rănile pe care le avem imprimate, prea puțini realizează că purtăm însemnele suferinței în suflet. Cei care ne iubesc, ne ajută să înțelegem de ce am fost răniți, în timp ce alte persoane doar ne critică. Mi se pare oribil!
Dacă un om e incapabil să-ți vadă lacrimile din inimă, nu-i permite să-ți vadă nici zâmbetul
În afara faptului că o persoană suferă, mai trebuie să și îndure criticile și jignirile celor din jur. Mulți nu au puterea de-a înțelege ce înseamnă depresia, mai ales cei care nu au trecut prin așa ceva. Ei se lasă păcăliți de zâmbete false și adâncesc tăieturile și rănile…
Oricât de greu ar fi sa faci față atâtor vorbe, cei care te iubesc se lasă folosiți ca scut. Ei te apără, ei înseamnă totul. Ei merită totul. Fără ei multi dintre noi am fi pierduți. Acei oameni ne călăuzesc spre bucurie, ne fac să vedem frumusețea zilelor trecute, dar și frumusețea prezentului. Nu uitați să dați o șansă și blogului meu de fotografii. Veți găsi acolo multe și superbe imagini de primăvară. Click here!
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Those who show us the light from the darkness are those who love us
If a man isn’t able to see your tears from the heart, do not allow him to see your smile. When a person cares about you, he will see every detail of your body, of you. People who love us realize our suffering. They see the storm from our heart without having to show them the rain.
Those who show us the light from the darkness are those who love us. Few people are able to see the wounds that we have printed on our heart and only a few realize that we bear the suffering’s insignia on our soul. Those who love us, help us to understand why we were wounded while others just criticize us. I find it horrible!
If a man isn’t able to see your tears from the heart, do not allow him to see your smile
It is not only that a person is suffering, but that person has to endure criticism and insults from others. Many people do not have the power to understand what depression is, especially those who have not gone through it. They let themselves fooled by fake smiles and so they expand our cuts and wounds…
As hard as it is for you to face so many words, those who love you allow themselves to be used as a shield. They’re defending you, they mean everything. They deserve everything. Without them, many of us would be lost. Those people lead us to joy, make us see the beauty of past days, but also the beauty of the present. Please do not forget to give a chance to my photo blog. There you will find beautiful spring photos. Click here!
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Very insightful!
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Thank you very much 🙂
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I try to think of these things when I am with others…to be careful that my words do not add insult to injury, so to speak. But yes, our friends should be a shield. So I try to remember to be a good one. As I go on in life I get better at thinking before speaking (but not perfect). Nice post Monica!
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Thank you very much 🙂
I think when we are child we are absolved if we say something wrong. You know the saying: kids says always the truth?
But when we grow up, we have to pay a very much attention to what we say and we learn to do this.
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I agree. Children don’t yet have the ability to understand how some things they say can affect other people. But we do! 😳
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Indeed 🙂
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😎
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Profound thoughts, Monica. A reactive depression, as opposed to the endogenous type, however, comes as a result of outside events, such as bereavement, and is better expressed than held inside.
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You’re right, Derrick. Thanks for your words 🙂
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I liked your post and I like your thoughts.
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Aww… Thank you very much ❤
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I hope, Monica, that you have such people in your life. People who shield you and love you whole and completely. And that you love yourself the same way.
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Suntem protejaţi permanent de cei care ne iubesc, protejându-i la rândul nostru. Dincolo de toate neîmplinirile sau de zbaterile zadarnice ale unor aripi nevăzute, suntem mai puternici, de fiecare dată, prin iubire şi cu ajutorul celor care ne iubesc necondiţionat. Iubirea, deasupra tuturor intereselor lumeşti, străluceşte… Iubind, chiar dacă uneori nu ne dăm seama, strălucim. 🙂
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Multumesc. 🙂
Frumos spus
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Insightful. Powerful.
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Glad you liked it 🙂
Thank you so much for your words 😀
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Definitely an insightful blog! And, I love that you put it in different languages! Also enjoyed your photos!
~Sarah Katherine
http://Www.thetreasuresoflife.com
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I’m glad you liked it, Sarah 🙂
Thank you very much!
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What a lovely and kind heart you have, Monica! Your words are comforting. ❤
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Aww… Thank you so much, Rose 🙂
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Empowering Post Monica. Definitely the best should stay till the end and rest, better take leave.
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Thank you very much, Mann ❤
xoxo
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This is beautiful, Monica.
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Many thanks, Josh 😀
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Loved the way you painted your stirred emotions…
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I am glad you liked my post.
Thank you very much for your words 😀
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Tears from your heart are great words.
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Many thanks for your kind words 🙂
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Minunate cuvinte
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Multumesc cu intarziere ❤
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powerful and full of insight! xx
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You’re too kind, Lynz
xoxo
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xoxo
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That is a difficult question, Mónica. Why (do you let yourself) be wounded by criticism? A few tips:
1) Most important, DO NOT let yourself be wounded by anyone, and I mean anyone. Ignore or fight back. Kick.boxing is a good option. 🙂
2) You are wounded because certain people criticize you. a) You seek acceptance from others, normal, but you need to go past that. b) Accept yourself, don’t leave that task to others. c) If those you seek hurt you, they are not worth it. Ignore them.
3) You are the only person qualified to “judge” yourself. Some may have an opinion, only when asked, but in the end, only you can decide who you are. If you haven’t found who you are, don’t worry, it comes with time. (I still haven’t quite figured out who I am, but I’m working on it) 😉
Bon week-end.
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Wow! Thanks for these nice advices, Brian. You really know how to help a friend.
Have a beautiful weekend, too 😀
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Well I hope it helps. Most people have no memory. But I do remember how I “struggled” between 16 and 19-20. Wanting to “fit in”, be accepted, etc. Until, one day, I realized that what mattered was doing the things I liked regardless of others. And then what happens, is that if you do the things you like (and are good at) people will pop out of nowhere and “tag” along. 🙂 pe mai tarziu.
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I don’t want to be accepted by anyone. I have my own way and this is enough for me. 🙂
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Absolutely! You were faster than I was. 😉 Congrats.
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Thank you, Brian 🙂
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Fantastic post, very inspiring.
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Many thanks 🙂
I am glad you liked it.
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