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Nobody can tell you what to do when you’re… sad.
Nobody can tell you what to do when you’re… happy.
Nobody can tell you what to do when you’re… angry.
Nobody can tell you what to do when you’re… glad.
Nobody can tell you what to do when you… nervous.
Nobody can tell you what to do when you… calm.
Nobody can tell you what to do when… you love.
Nobody can tell you what to do when… you hate.
Nobody can tell you what to do when… your heart is broken.
Nobody can teach you to dream.
Because you’re unique. Because what applies to others, does not apply to you.
P.S. – But some might know what to tell you when you’re… wrong. And maybe it would be better to listen to them. You can learn from others’ mistakes.
In the final, I invite you to see how it looks “Elegance in blue“.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când ești… trist.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când ești… fericit.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când ești… supărat.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când ești… bucuros.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când ești… nervos.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când ești… calm.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când… iubești.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când… urăști.
Nimeni nu poate să-ți spună ce să faci când… ai inima frântă.
Nimeni nu te poate învăța să visezi.
Pentru că tu ești unic/ă. Pentru că ce se aplică la alții, nu ți se aplică și ție.
P.S. – Dar unii s-ar putea să știe ce să-ți spună când… greșești. Și poate ar fi bine să-i asculți. Poți învăța din greșelile altora.
În încheiere te invit să vezi cum arată “Eleganța în albastru“
Very true. We can learn from mistakes whether they be ours or others.
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But only if we want to recognize that we’ve made a mistake 🙂
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True….
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True, we can always learn from mistakes made. xo
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But only if we want to 🙂
xoxo ❤
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True 🙂 xox
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Mistakes are only bad if we don’t learn from them.
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No extra word :))
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True…How you feel applies to each individual, doesn’t it. What feels nervous or happy to me, may be different for others. Cheers!
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You’re very right, Christopher 🙂
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Lovely shadow shots, unique Monica
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Thank you very much, you unique Derrick and unique Jackie.
Kiss you both :* ❤
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A very wisdom advice to learn from others mistakes! It’s just difficult to do it! Usually it doesn’t work!
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It works only if you want. Right?
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It should be!
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Emotions are natural to human and so is their expression. It is very humane to accept our mistakes when others point them out. It is possible that it’s not even a mistake in your opinion but what’s the harm in listening! You always have the freedom of reaction.
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You’re right, Mann 🙂
But not all the people recognized their mistakes. They think that they know everything and they can’t do mistakes. I know people like that.
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They do exist. But it’s their loss in the long run.
On the other hand we should focus more on ourselves to be better every new day-by accepting our mistakes or I would say deficiencies…try to correct them and be happy and contended.
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You’re too kind, Mann. I am not so kind with people like that. They hurt me a lot some years ago.
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Sweetie, They hurt you years ago and are not even thinking about it, and YOU are still hurting yourself by giving importance to them and what they did to you.
It was a mistake to have wrong people in your life (it applies to me as well). So what we are going to do now…we are going to correct our mistake and erase them and make place for some deserving ones…Can we do that? Now smile. 🙂
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I know you’re right, Mann. I struggled with my feelings a long time. Until I realized that those people deserve nothing from me. And, you’re right again, I must live my life as I want without them. And I started to do it. And I feel better now :))
Thank you so much for your help and support, my dear friend ❤
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Don’t thank me. We all are human and we tend to become weak every now or then. It’s just that the one who is feeling strong can always make the other one feel better. That’s how it should be.
Today you were weak, may be tomorrow it’s my turn.
It’s good we have each other.:)
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Yes, Mann, you’re so right. You’re such a beautiful soul ❤
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You express your thoughts so creatively! They are spoken simply but are so profound! 🙂
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It is simple to live, but is hard to live simple 🙂
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Yes,I am unique😎😎😎😎
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Yes, you are 🙂
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Hahaha & you too
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Nobody can tell you… much… Everyone makes his or her own choices. Now even if nobody can tell you much, you can always listen. And observe. There is always a lot to learn.
(And if you have any doubt, you, my friend, are quite unique)
Ciao
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Yes, it’s about choices and learning.
You are quite unique, too, Brian 🙂
You know, one day I will ask you for a testimonial for my writing for my blog. I would love to know your opinion, Brian 🙂
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Yes, choices, and the road(s) (tao) you take. I’ll be delighted to write a testimonial. Just say when.
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I am happy to hear that. You can write it anytime you want, Brian. My email is: lookaround_99@yahoo.ro
❤
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Ok. I will. Now, what exactly do you have in mind as a “testimonial”? Need some guidelines here. General direction. Objective. # words…
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About my blog, my writing, my poetry. Maybe about what do you think about my thinking at 17. Something like that. If you liked one of my post in particular and you could recommend it. Something like that. 🙂 Thank you in advance, Brian ❤
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Ok. Give me time to think. I never start writing until the “story” is complete in my head. So I will start listening to the story that flies somewhere about you. It may take just a few days, weeks or even months… 🙂
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There’s no problem, Brian. Anyway, I’ll miss a period from here. I had a very stressful time and I’m very tired. I can’t wait for vacation. Be well my friend!
See you soon! ❤
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You too. Just close your eyes. Breathe deeply, and the vacation will pop open! ❤
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It is right here, Brian. Sorry for my belated response ❤
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Hey Monica! No worry. I was just thionking about you the other day wondering if the vacarion had already started for you? 👍👍👍😎
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Oh, yes! It is so good to have nothing to do :))
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And take advantage to breathe. Enjoy the moment. Look at the trees. People in the street. Take a walk. have a coffee with friends… 🙂
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I enjoy every second, Brian. Be sure of that 🙂
xoxo
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I don’t doubt it a minute. 🙂 You seem to have so much energy, and… a keen eye. You look at things around you. How’s the holiday so far? (And how’s your father doing? Job-hunting in the summer may not be the best period)
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Having nothing to do is more than delightful, Brian 🙂 Holiday is always a blessing. So far, I had fun with my friends. Next week I’ll be with my father at my uncle house. He has a little courtyard with many flowers and a little pool. It will be very fun.
Yes, the summer is not good for job-hunting, especially on television. 😦 Will see.
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Your uncle’s house has a garden dwarf AND a pool? 🙂
About job-hunting, September is only a month and a half away. The important thing is that your father keeps his spirits up. Take care “Monique”. Pe mai tarziu…
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Yes, my uncle has all of that, Brian.
Regarding my father, he knows. He’s ok. We now work to 3 Ebooks together. One about my adventure in blogging, another about traps in blogging and one is a collection of my haikus. We want to translate them and sell them. We need to find someone to help us with the translation. But till then, we have to finish them. Maybe we will earn some money in this way. And if it will work, maybe we will continue to write Ebooks. 🙂
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Hey! That is great news. I still have to jump the step to self-publishing on-line. One point you need to think about is DISTRIBUTION and DIFFUSION. It’s relatively easy to E-publish I think but how do you reach 1000’s of buyers? That is the key issue which I haven’t been able to solve. How do you make yourself accessible to a wide public?
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Hey! I will publish chapters on my blog and maybe I will ask my fellow bloggers to help me to promote my books. I will promote them on my Twitter and on my personal Facebook account. I will also look for other ways to promote them. I will see. That’s what I have in my mind for now. 🙂
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That is interesting. Let me know if you want a hand in relaying stuff on social media. Pe mai tarziu.
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I will need for sure, Brian 🙂
Thank you for your support 😀
Pe mai tarziu!
xoxo
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Yesterday i had a conversation with one of your compatriots. She taught me the the phrase “cu placere”. 😎 and she told me how to pronounce correctly: “mulumesc”. 🤓 i learned sometjing. 😉
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Wow! I am glad to hear that 🙂
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Very well said!
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Thank you very much 🙂
I am glad you liked it.
Have an awesome weekend! ❤
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La noi functioneaza un asa zis exces de zel. Esti suparata? Aa pai trebuie sa faci asa si asa.
Esti nervoasa? Da, pai trebuie sa…
Pe ala il iubesti? Dar nu stii ca ala…
Eu mi-as dori sa aud macar un om in viata atunci cand ma doare capul sau ceva sa imi spuna “imi pare rau, stiu cat de nasol e” si nu “ai luat un nurofen?”. Si eu stiu ca se poate lua ceva de durere, dar nu de asta am zis ca ma doare.. Altfel as fi intrebat “ce sa iau ca ma doare capul?”
Empatia nu funcționează in tara noastra, asta e clar.
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Oh, daaa…. Cata dreptate ai 🙂
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:))
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Lovely thoughts. Everyone needs to dream for themself.
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🙂 Muchas gracias, my dear friend ❤
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Bonjour MOPANA
Mon passage sur ton joli blog
Ce sont mes 2 mains sur mon clavier
Sur un profil une belle image
Qui derrière cet écran se trouve une personne de gentille
La ou je retrouve une de mes meilleurs amies ou amis
Je te fais un énorme sourire même si tu ne vois pas
Dans le fond de mon cœur je te l’offre
Passe une agréable journée
Surtout ensoleillé ,chez moi le temps pas extra
Bise amicale Bernard
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Good heavens! I’m on an iPad and at the bottom of the page it said: “WordPress uses cookies, click close to accept.”
So I clicked “close”, but then it also had me click “unfollow” at the same time, how stupid is that to put the same click in the same place?
Just to let you know why I just clicked “follow”, when I have already been following you. 🙂
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It feels like that sometimes, doesn’t it? That other people’s advice is not for us, because we are unique. Yet, we forget that besides being unique we are part of human race, we laugh the same, cry the same, feel the same. We are different and yet so alike.
🙂 May your week be beautiful my dear friend.
Dajena
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You’re so right, Dajena ❤
Sorry for my belated response.
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❤ No worries my dear 🙂
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Esti bine? Unde ai disparut?
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Ce draguta esti ❤
Da, sunt bine si revin curand. Au fost ultimele zile de scoala si m-am simtit tare obosita.
Sper ca si voi 4 sunteti bine 🙂
Pupici multi :*
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Pai si nu zici unde esti?
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Ahaa :)) Sunt acasa, mai am o zi de scoala. Nu am fost nicaieri. Dar asa este la final de an pt mine. Cu o luna inainte de terminarea scolii parca innebunesc :))
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Pai inseamna ca trebuie sa schimbi registrul blogului zilele astea. O poza cu un caiet, carnetul de note :))
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Bonsoir MOPANA
Laisse le bonheur te surprendre
passe une bonne soirée dans la joie et la bonne humeur
Ce mardi n’as pas été beau du tout
Je me demande si le soleil existe encore
Mais de passer chez toi me mets du baume au cœur
gros bisous , Bernard, belle soirée
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True
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Mopana I have this new stroy called Blue Jasmine and we need your comments. Our writing at the Gastradamus community has blossomed and yes everyone is original, but my new story, Blue Jasmine changes thing. Your commented review would be cool
https://gastradamus.wordpress.com/2016/06/16/blue-jasmine/
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Your writing always connects with me! Loved this, it’s true we are unique and each person has to find their own answers due to that very reason. Being unique isn’t an easy task, but then again who would want to be the same as others ? Very thoughtfully written and also quite thought provoking I would say. Great work Monica! Cheers 🙂
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Hey! I am back :)) And your beautiful comment made me feel so good 🙂 Thank you very much ❤
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Hey Monica, glad you’re back! Have missed reading your poems and seeing the wonderful pictures 😉👍
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Hey! glad I’m back. Thank you very much 😀 For now reading and answering comments. Tomorrow with new posts and pictures.
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😜 Okies. Will wait another day! 😂👍
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Yes, finally its all upto us isn’t it 🙂 Whether we want to love or to hate 🙂 Some food for thought 🙂
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Oh, yeah! It is up to us, for sure 🙂
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Foarte frumos articol!
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Hey! Multumesc frumos. Ma bucur ca ti-a placut. 🙂
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Bonjour
Toi mon amie MOPANA
Tu remplis mes jours de joie
Le matin à mon réveil , tu seras présent au cours de ma journée
Belle Amitié entre nous , tu ouvres mon cœur
Tu me donnes ce que j’ai envie par tes petits messages
Des fois je souries quand je suis mélancolique
Bises passe une belle journée
Bernard
Profite de ton week-end et de la semaine à venir
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Bonjour
Entre nous , nous avons scellé un pacte celui de l’amitié
Cette amitié une fleur qui s’épanouies au fis des jours des mois des années
Ces pétales ont eu du mal de s’ouvrir au départ mais ensemble
On en a pris soin et ses pétales ce sont grandes ouvertes
Comme la naissance d’un enfant
Alors empêchons cette fleur de se faner
Je t’embrasse passe une agréable journée
Bernard
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Merci beaucoup, mon chéri Bernard 🙂
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Love the poem Monica! Hope you are well and enjoying life. Blessings Roland ❤️🙂💙
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Many thanks, Roland.
I am fine and very busy with my last year in high school. I hope you’re well and healthy, too.
Mo-hugs and kisses ❤
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