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We are not the ones who choose life: she choose us. There is no need to ask ourselves why we have the joys or sorrows. We do not choose our lives, but we can decide how we see joys and sorrows that we receive.
Sometimes there isn’t a happy choice, fair or good. Just one less painful and less wrong than another. The choices we make are individual and we can only obey consequences, because we’ll live the rest of our life with this choices, whether we regret or not. The choice is choice.
There is no rule that says that you necessarily have to choose something or someone. Whatever the circumstances are, the choice remains valid and everyone has the right to decide that does not want to choose… Whenever you begin to feel that you take the wrong choices or take them in a hurry, at nerves, when you are sad, drunk or too happy, ask yourself if you’re willing to give up so easily to your happiness…
There are some moments when you can not change what you choose, and I learned that “What’s done is done.” Decisions must be taken calmly, because when you regret, there is the risk to question any decisions you’ve taken before.
Nu suntem noi cei ce ne alegem viaţa: ea este cea care ne alege. N-are rost să ne întrebăm mereu de ce avem parte de bucurii sau tristeţi. Nu ne alegem vieţile, dar putem să hotărâm cum vedem bucuriile şi tristețile pe care le primim.
Uneori nu există o alegere fericită, corectă, bună, ci doar una mai puţin dureroasă și mai puțin greșită ca alta. Alegerile pe care le facem sunt individuale și doar noi putem să ne supunem consecințelor, pentru că noi o sa trăim tot restul vieții cu alegerea pe care am făcut-o, indiferent dacă o regretăm sau nu. Alegerea e alegere.
Nu există nicio regulă care îți spune că trebuie neapărat să alegi ceva sau pe cineva. Indiferent de circumstanțe, alegerea rămâne validă și fiecare are dreptul de a decide că nu vrea să aleagă… Ori de câte ori simți că începi să greșești alegerile sau că le iei pe grabă, la nervi, când ești trist, beat sau prea fericit, întreabă-te dacă ești dispus să renunți atât de ușor la fericirea ta…
Există unele momente în care nu mai poți schimba ceea ce alegi, iar eu am învățat că orice ar fi “CE-I FĂCUT, E BUN FĂCUT”. Alegerile trebuie luate cu calm, pentru că apărând regretul, riști să te îndoiești de orice alegere făcută înainte.
Very well-said! I am often lack of confidence in my decisions, I wish I could be more decisive. I hate to feel regret, it’s useless, but it happens with me so often. It can be better to think about everything what happened tomorrow…
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Thank you so much! I wish you to be more confident in yourself and as you say more decisive 🙂
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Thank you so much!
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Yes it is the attitude how you look at the things. Just laugh away the worries and no body can stop you from getting ur smile broader. Great post
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Again and again, many thanks for your kind words 🙂
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My pleasure mopana
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🙂 By the way, I am Monica for friends 🙂
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Thanks Monica. Lovely name. Wish you keep
Mesmerizing the world with your crisp sweet emotional n meaningful posts. Just love it
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There’s so much depth in your writing. Loved it.
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You’re so kind 🙂 Thank you!
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Well said, thumbs up big time! 🙂
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Thank you very much 🙂
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That’s why I say to myself: it’s always worth.
“No matter with the future brings” if everything we do is already done.
Thank you so much Monica, for these acute thoughts.
Bye, Piero
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You’re welcome, Piero and thank you 🙂
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There is always cause and consequence. Besides, life is so hard and always like that
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Hey, Edward! Thanks for your kind words 🙂
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So true.
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Sometimes fortunately, sometimes unfortunately… 🙂
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Nice. I think it’s important to remember we don’t have to choose or even choose the options presented to us. Sometimes, we can make our own option from which to choose. You’re being very profound today, Monica. Cheers!
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You’re too kind, Chris. Thanks for your words ❤
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So True! 🙂
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Thank you, Josh 🙂
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It’s so true!
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Glad you enjoyed it 🙂
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Yes my dear Monica, life is all about choices and every choice has consequences and changes our life. Hugs to you my friend. ❤️
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Thank you so much for your words, Miriam.
Hugs back ❤
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You’re most welcome xo
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xoxo ❤
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