The eyes of despair

When I visit a night club in my city, I see always two guys in the corner. One is drinking juice, I suppose he is the driver. Other is drinking wine or beer. They change roles with time, so the one who drives took shorter straw, because night will be more boring without alcohol. Other guy will be drunk so he will pretend that he enjoyed.

The truth is, they are loners by years and they can’t find girlfriends. Amazing thing in my city is that some things never changed. The same loners still stayed single, and taken girls are taken or divorced and taken again. This is like shopping when customers are the same and with the same habits. Rich buyers will buy expensive things and poor will just watch and leave.

That two guys are not handsome men. This is not the point of their story. They are single because they never tried to find girl. Their faces are grumpy as before judgment day, so which girl would like to drink beer with them?

People believe that they can’t find partners because they are ugly, poor, stupid or not popular. The truth is they can’t find soulmate because their expression of face, acts and speech work against them.


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By the same author: Kill me with your smile

Can you recognize yourself as a desperate person?

This is your speech when you meet someone:

Hi, you are gorgeous, I never saw such a beautiful woman. I am good guy, I live with my mother and I help her in everything. I will call you right on time. Hey, why did not you answer on my message? I saw you last weekend with your friends, but you told me that you are going with grandma in park? Why you lied to me? Why you hurt me?“.

Key of attraction lays in mystery.

I always fall in love in the same type of guy, even they looked different, but it was connection between them. I was chasing mysterious guy who did not answer on my call and messages and who suddenly appears when I did not expect him. I was in love with a guy who did not confirm every of my words because he had own attitude, but he was enough polite to discuss with me, not to tells me what I need to do.

If you are desperate woman, your date will look like this. You will show up in short skirt, your makeup will be stolen in circus, and your feet will suffer because of high heels. You will drink a lot just to kill your potential shame and inhibitions. You will allow guy to touch you where he wish, to drive you in some dark corner to get sex. He will not call you and you will call him and talk to his mother why he did not call you back. At least, you will see him with another girl in coffee bar, and he will call you to meet with him again when nobody is looking.

Girls in short relations will say that they had much experiences, because they changed guys every weekend. This is not true, because they are all the time on the beginning of story. They don’t know how respect works, what does it mean when guy cares for you when you have flu, and how is to eat bitter food with him and smile because you can’t digest it. How is to cook when you have no idea and your partner doesn’t complain, he is willing to help you to learn better.

Eyes of despair are worst than blindness. That eyes are looking in wrong direction. From that road, you will see always the same team of people who are here to use you.


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You are not desperate anymore when:

You don’t call partner after he stopped calling you.

You don’t beg partner to came back after he left you.

You don’t want to strangle his present girlfriend.

You don’t want to kill your friend because she is talking with your ex.

Words “I must find a boyfriend” , “I will die” and ”I am ugly” are not in your dictionary anymore.

Despair is a flood. You are desperate when you are alone, this despair will pick wrong partner for you, then you will cry in bad relation and you will cry again when it will be over. If you are looking for a partner when you are lonely, this is wrong reason, because nobody can’t be with you all the time. You will blame that person when she will be busy that you feel even worse.

Guys from the beginning of story are still alone, but they have each other. They are not aware that they have something, but they ignore that because this is not what they are looking for. Once when and if they find girlfriends, they will be jealous on each other if one stays single. That will be the girl who separated them.

Guest Post by Kristina Gallo

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I am writing short stories about human psychology. My view is ironic and objective, and examples are from real life. During life, i was always suffering in relations caused by my wrong choices. I want to forward what i learned.

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