These days is popular new viral hit: two fat married women beat mistress in bikini because she has stolen their husbands. Nobody involved in that street fight, poor mistress was half naked and two Godzilla women made revenge.
Really, what would you think at first, if you were cheated? To kill the bitch, slap her, make her ashamed? That is first instinct which that two women made real. Well, if they expected that people will clap hands, they are wrong. Only minority will approve this savage act, and mostly will ask: what is with husbands, will they get kick in their asses? After all, husband started this. In such situations, woman’s logic fails, they will not blame husbands because “he is seduced”, “he was drunk”, “we had conflict and I did not want to sleep with him”, “he wanted to make me jealous.” This bunch of excuses will pass over their mind, without question what is wrong with them and their marriage.
I will not say that it can happen to anybody. Human species in not identified with angels. We are indeed not monogamous. Well, there is difference between humans and animals: control over your desires and moral standards. Obligations, loyalty and conscience. After all, you can go if you don’t feel good in marriage. If street cat likes few cats, he will jump on them. If I like another men, I will look at them and walk away because I am already taken. There is difference between short sparks and eternal flame.
Now here is another part, why some women have problem with unfaithful husband?
I will say few reasons, mostly in common:
Woman gets fat in marriage.
Without chauvinism, I am realistic when I say that getting fat is not sexy. Don’t blame him if he starts to stare around.
Couples are constantly arguing.
Small conflicts, from time to time are stimulative. Big conflicts without ending are not recommended. We are tired from work, and imagine when you are coming home and instead of dinner there is topic about your failed personality.
Couples have no topic to talk about.
When you are both silent, troubles are on the way.
Couples are too busy to work on marriage.
Always is another thing more important. Your kids, your job, your washing machine. What about him?
Now, I start to look on these two women with pity. What if they tried to fight back, in a way to find lover? Very hard. First, they need to lose at weight. Then, they need to calm down otherwise all men will runaway from them. Also, they must look inside into their marriage. Really, do you want to cook to unfaithful husband, you want to wash and iron his laundry after he had sex with another woman? You want to sleep with him after another woman touched him?
It is very easy to be mistress. Once I was dating with engaged man. We dated three times. He said that he will introduce me as his boss at work. After his mother saw me, she asked him “Where is your fiance?” This made me thinking, I don’t want to be in this relation. They already redecorated flat, but he got bored with bills, furniture and now he needs to feel young again. I gave up because I felt sorry for this fiance.
Now, when I am thinking as wife, it is not easy to be wife. You are completely in this. This is not only your fantastic skills in bed, your makeup and clothes, your smile. This is bunch of dirty plates, socks, bills, family, and other things. This is responsibility. What happens wrong, some women get lost in responsibilities and forget to date with their husbands. Imagine that guy who falls in love in young, slim woman, and 20 years after he saw big Godzilla who threats him with dirty fork because he did not clean the table?
I recommend women to be wiser than mistress. Don’t spend all your money on furniture, it is not important what kind of color and shape is your kitchen. Spend part of money on your physical look, remind your partner that you are still desirable and don’t eat whole hamburger in front of him. Talk with another men. Add them on your social network. Your husband must feel that you are still unavailable for him, in some sense.
Forget paddle and fight. Even if you break slut’s legs, she will still be there and wait your partner if he gets mad. You will just give her additional points, to feel as lame victim with broken bones. Also you might get to court and pay money penalty or serve into jail, because your acts were faster than your mind.
Guest Post by Kristina Gallo
I am writing short stories about human psychology. My view is ironic and objective, and examples are from real life. During life, i was always suffering in relations caused by my wrong choices. I want to forward what i learned.
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