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Un prieten e “cel care te face să vezi soarele din spatele furtunii
Ne naștem printre oameni și, normal, ne ferim de singurătate. Pentru că avem de nevoie de PRIETENI!
Ce e de fapt un prieten? Eu cred că un prieten e “cel care te face să vezi soarele din spatele furtunii”. Un prieten adevărat e cel care te învață să trăiești și să accepți tot ce se întâmplă în jurul tău. Și tot el te învață să te bucuri și de lumină, dar și te întuneric.
Cele mai de preț calități ale unei prietenii sunt:
– Încrederea
– Respectul
– Iubirea
– Sinceritatea
Mai de mult mă întrebam cum e să ai prieteni adevărați… A fost în viața mea un băiat care mi-a zis că “prietenii sunt ca stelele… Nu-i vezi mereu, dar știi că sunt acolo!”.
Eu spun că e ușor să-ți faci prieteni… E mai greu când afli că-i ai degeaba… E adevarat că prietenii sunt ca stelele, dar stelele dispar când e furtună… :(
A friend is “the one who makes you see the sun behind the storm
We are born among the people and, of course, we avoid loneliness. Because we need friends!
What is really a friend? I think a friend is “the one who makes you see the sun behind the storm.” A true friend is the one who teaches you to live and accept everything that happens around you. And he teaches you to enjoy both the light and the dark.
The qualities of a friendship are:
- Confidence,
- Respect,
- Love,
- Honesty.
A while ago I was wondering how is to have true friends… There was a guy in my life who told me that “friends are like stars… You do not see them always but you know they’re there.”
I say it’s easy to make friends… It’s harder when you find out that you have nothing… It is true that friends are like stars… but stars disappear when storm is coming… 😦
Actually, It’s hard for me to make it true friends but I could be a good listener. That’s why it becomes my power behind my weak. 🙂
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There are few friends who are like sky which cannot be vanished!!!
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True :). One of them is my beloved father 🙂
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Exactly!!! Parent’s are real well wishers!!!
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…aber alle Sterne bleiben bei uns, Sie haben sich nur hinter den Wolken versteckt.
Wünsche Dir eine gute Nacht ❤ Lis
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I guess friends that are like stars are not good. They are too far high up to reach out 🙂
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True. Or they run away at the first lightning 😦
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Sometimes, friends are like the stars in the storm. They are behind the clouds and we can’t see them. But they are there. You know, sometimes it is not that we don’t have friends, it is just that they are busy with work or school or whatever, you know. Maybe we want them here now because we are lonely. But maybe we have to wait for them to be available…for the clouds to pass. Does this make any sense???
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I understand what you mean. But sometimes they run away at the first lightning. They run away when I need them more. They say that are my friends but they aren’t.
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Sorry 😕 Running away is different than being busy.
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Sometimes the best friend you can have is the one within yourself. Be your own best friend first. You will attract stars in your life Monica. True ones who will not let you down.
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I try to be my best friend, Miriam
And many times I succeed. And I feel great. Thanks for your beautiful advices!
Love you ❤
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I’m glad that you succeed Monica. And you will succeed more and more as you go through life, I’m sure. I wish you friendship and love, always. xo
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Thank you, Miriam. Your words have gone right to my heart ❤
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Oh sweet girl, friends are rare. The truly rich person can count their friends over a lifetime on one hand.
You give your heart so freely. Don’t ever lose that. You will find the treasure of your friends, just keep your standards high, and know that you are valuable and worth their efforts of friendship.
Bless you sweet girl.
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You’re right, Wendy. On one hand. Thanks for your beautiful words and advices ❤
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Ai prea multă dreptate. Dar se aplică doar prietenilor superficiali. Cei adevărați vor fi alături indiferent de vreme și anotimp. Cei care dispar, ducă-se. 🙂
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Dap… Ducă-se!
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🙂
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No They don’t… its vision is hidden, it will be clear after the storm 🙂
Josh
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Yes, it will be clear after the storm. But how many friends will be around you? You know very well, Josh, a lot of them run away when the first lightning strikes.
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haha 😛 🙂
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Hello beautiful girl. And you’re right. Friends are like stars. You know who is my little star? You. Such is why I nominated you for the three day quotation challenge: https://xaranahara.wordpress.com/2016/03/01/three-day-quotation-challenge-day-3-yogi-bear-is-my-fiances-favorite-past-time/
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And sometimes our friends simply don’t realize that we may need a hug…and a friend because they may be sitting in their own storm. Sometimes all we need to do is to brush the clouds aside for a moment so we can find each other again.
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Every word is true 🙂
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Unfortunately, they are, but true friends always stay no matter of weather! That’s how you can exactly understand whether it’s your true friend or not…and if you have at least one such, than you are a very lucky girl!
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Apart from Daddy? I have one, but this summer she will go in London to her mother for ever.
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Don’t worry, Mon, you will meet new friends and who knows among them can be good ones, best ones! Now it’s hard to believe, but it will be, believe me!
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I do believe you, Ann
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it is not too bad!! we can learn how to be alone, how to strengthen ourselves, how to enjoy, how to . . . .
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You’re right. I already learnt some of those 😉
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Yes true friends are hard to come by! xx
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I know 😦
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You’ll have many acquaintances in life, but by comparison, far fewer true friends. They are precious!
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I know you’re right, Rob 🙂
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If friends are like stars who disappear when storm come, why make one. Let friendship be there and like air–colourless, odourless, shapeless and free from any type of binding still indispensable for life.Best thing, it shows the properties as per situation and moreover it wont leave even in storm (joking)
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Prietenii adevarati trebuie sa fie oameni cu multe calitati. Sa stie sa ajute, sa se tina de cuvant, sa stie sa te ridice din prapastie, sa aiba tot timpul o vorba buna, sa nu te lase cand ti-e lumea mai draga si multe altele. Eu am luat teapa de multe ori.. 😦
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Ohoho! Stiu cu ce se mananca asta 😦
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Remember: the stars are always there behind the clouds!! You may just not see them as clearly! 🙂
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I’m sure they are… But friends? Not all of them 😦 Some of them will run at the first sign of storm
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Ah but then they are not really friends are they?
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Nope 😦
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True friendship requires nothing in return, so it is okay to have nothing and when we gain a true friend we discover, we have everything. A great write, Monica!
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You’re right 🙂
Many thanks!
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I hope you are okay, Monica ❤ I have a few true friends that I trust, but I also have some that I thought I could trust, but they ended up letting me down big time. Unfortunately, that happens sometimes and although it’s hard to deal with, we have to I’m not very good at seeing who is real and who is not, that’s something I need to learn for sure! Thanks for a great post that really made me think!
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I am fine, thanks Melissa ❤
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Don’t measure others by your own standards. You’ll end up disillusioned, disappointed and frustrated. Remember each one of us is different.
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I know, but when they call themselves friends they must be there to support you as you did it when they were in pain, right?
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Right
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You can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue in their actions.
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Don’t get into the habit of complaining to everyone about your problem. Most don’t care anyway. Talk to the Almighty who has full control.
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Fair weather friends are not really friends. I have known lots of people in my life and none of them ended up being true friends. The only true friend I have is myself and was my mom who taught about being your own best friend instead of being your own worse enemy. This is not to say there are no true friends out there – I know there are. 🙂
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My dad is one of my best friends 🙂
I try and many times I succeed to be my best friend.
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Is that you looking sad out there?
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Yes, that’s me
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But, why the sadness?
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We all have moments of sadness. Don’t we?
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We do…
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I can’t imagine all your friends would disappear. Some are bound to stay
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Just a few. But that’s life, right?
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Yep
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De prieteni așa avem nevoie 😍
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😀
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