Folosim ura ca scut – We use hatred as a shield



Hate-01I would like to ask you… love hurts? Love is what really hurts? Or love is just a state of fulfillment? I think love is the most beautiful state. Love has no way to hurt… Love has only positive emotions. 

Hate-02The real pain means losing a loved one, means rejection, loneliness. It’s so beautiful to love. No one says that you have to love someone, love is not just between two people… It relates to life. Love is life!

Hate-03If we love more, we are more happy! We live to love and love to live. We can love anything in this world. Our love is like an ocean… You see just the beginning, because there is no end. If we want to seek love, we can find it in any and everyone. People love. Animals love. We all love.

Hate-04Why to be influenced by hatred and contempt? Why we do not love anymore? Why we fear of that? Maybe because we were rejected? We use hatred as a shield… But we live with the illusion of unrequited love. I think we deserve to love even when love “hurts” (see post “Let’s love when love hurts!“).

Hate-05I better live loving all, than to let hate dominate my thinking. 



On my photo blog you can find an interesting photo “Trapped in a Vortex”.



Hate-01Aș vrea să vă întreb… iubirea doare? Iubirea e cea care doare de fapt? Sau iubirea e doar o stare de împlinire? Eu cred ca iubirea e cea mai frumoasa stare. Iubirea nu are cum sa doară… Iubirea are doar emoții pozitive.

Hate-02Adevărata durere ține de pierderea persoanelor iubite, de respingere, de singurătate. E atât de frumos să iubești. Nu zice nimeni că trebuie să iubești pe cineva, iubirea nu se referă numai la dragostea dintre 2 persoane… Ea se referă la viață. Iubirea e viață!

Hate-03Cu cât iubim mai mult cu atât suntem mai Fericiți! Trăim ca să iubim și iubim ca să trăim. Putem iubi orice pe lumea asta. Iubirea noastră e ca un ocean.. Îi vezi doar începutul, pentru că nu are sfârșit. Dacă vrem să căutăm iubire, o găsim în orice și în oricine. Oamenii iubesc. Animalele iubesc. Toți iubim.

Hate-04De ce ne-am lăsa influențați de ură si dispreț? De ce nu mai iubim? De ce ne temem de asta? Poate pentru că am fost respinși? Folosim ura ca scut… Dar trăim cu iluzia unei iubiri neîmpărtășite. Eu cred că merită să iubești și atunci când iubirea “doare” (vezi și postul „Hai să iubim și când iubirea doare!”).

Hate-05Mai bine trăiesc iubind tot, decât să las ura să-mi domine gândirea. 



Pe blogul meu foto puteți vedea o fotografie interesantă „Trapped in a Vortex


50 thoughts on “Folosim ura ca scut – We use hatred as a shield

  1. Sunt de aceasi parere! Iubirea nu doare! Iubirea ne ofera cel mai frumos sentiment, cea mai frumoasa stare de bine!
    Te imbratisez cu drag!

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  2. No, love does not hurt but the loss of love or someone we love hurts.You are right in that who we love becomes the person to whom we compare others. A post with many deep ideas today, Monica. Cheers. 😊

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  3. Ahhhhh love. Love is such a loaded word. I don’t know about your first language, but I believe that love is such a vague word in the English language. I love the idea that C.S. Lewis puts forth in his book, “The Four Loves” based on the four words used for love in Greek. I wrote a post on it once. If interested, you can find it here:
    Have a wonderful weekend Monica.

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  4. When we open our Hearts to Love, Monica, we are opening ourselves to hurt. There is so much pain when those we Love leave or when someone we Love goes through a Dark Side of Life. So many people put a wall up instead of Loving as they cruise along in Life. But OH how much they are missing!!! LOVE is THE answer to everything and is the ONLY way to really Live Life!!! Great post, my friend!! Thank you! ❤

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  5. This is so very true – love doesn’t hurt at all, just it’s removal for whatever reasons. Insightful and wise writing my friend. 🙂

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  6. Un grand bonjour en ce dimanche

    Chez moi celui-ci est pluvieux et bien gris
    Mon petit passage sur ton magnifique blog
    Pour embellir ta journée
    Ou les mots ne sont que douceur
    Quelques mots de bonheur
    Pour que ta journée soit de couleur
    Avec toute mon Amitié
    Je te souhaite une agréable journée

    En t’offrant cette rose en cadeau

    Bisous amicales Bernard

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