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I would like to ask you… love hurts? Love is what really hurts? Or love is just a state of fulfillment? I think love is the most beautiful state. Love has no way to hurt… Love has only positive emotions.
The real pain means losing a loved one, means rejection, loneliness. It’s so beautiful to love. No one says that you have to love someone, love is not just between two people… It relates to life. Love is life!
If we love more, we are more happy! We live to love and love to live. We can love anything in this world. Our love is like an ocean… You see just the beginning, because there is no end. If we want to seek love, we can find it in any and everyone. People love. Animals love. We all love.
Why to be influenced by hatred and contempt? Why we do not love anymore? Why we fear of that? Maybe because we were rejected? We use hatred as a shield… But we live with the illusion of unrequited love. I think we deserve to love even when love “hurts” (see post “Let’s love when love hurts!“).
I better live loving all, than to let hate dominate my thinking.
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On my photo blog you can find an interesting photo “Trapped in a Vortex”.
Aș vrea să vă întreb… iubirea doare? Iubirea e cea care doare de fapt? Sau iubirea e doar o stare de împlinire? Eu cred ca iubirea e cea mai frumoasa stare. Iubirea nu are cum sa doară… Iubirea are doar emoții pozitive.
Adevărata durere ține de pierderea persoanelor iubite, de respingere, de singurătate. E atât de frumos să iubești. Nu zice nimeni că trebuie să iubești pe cineva, iubirea nu se referă numai la dragostea dintre 2 persoane… Ea se referă la viață. Iubirea e viață!
Cu cât iubim mai mult cu atât suntem mai Fericiți! Trăim ca să iubim și iubim ca să trăim. Putem iubi orice pe lumea asta. Iubirea noastră e ca un ocean.. Îi vezi doar începutul, pentru că nu are sfârșit. Dacă vrem să căutăm iubire, o găsim în orice și în oricine. Oamenii iubesc. Animalele iubesc. Toți iubim.
De ce ne-am lăsa influențați de ură si dispreț? De ce nu mai iubim? De ce ne temem de asta? Poate pentru că am fost respinși? Folosim ura ca scut… Dar trăim cu iluzia unei iubiri neîmpărtășite. Eu cred că merită să iubești și atunci când iubirea “doare” (vezi și postul „Hai să iubim și când iubirea doare!”).
Mai bine trăiesc iubind tot, decât să las ura să-mi domine gândirea.
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Pe blogul meu foto puteți vedea o fotografie interesantă „Trapped in a Vortex”
Yes,I agree. Wonderfully written.!
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Many thanks, Aishwariya. I am glad you read it and liked it ❤
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Sunt de aceasi parere! Iubirea nu doare! Iubirea ne ofera cel mai frumos sentiment, cea mai frumoasa stare de bine!
Te imbratisez cu drag!
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Multumesc frumos. Si eu te imbratisez cu drag! Sa ai un week-end minunat!
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“Our love is like an ocean… You see just the beginning, because there is no end.” Such beautiful words and so true. May you always have love in your life.
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Thanks, Miriam 🙂 Your words are always warm and beautiful ❤
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So are yours.
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Iubirea ne da aripi, chiar si atunci cand e furtuna printre ea… ❤ Weekend placut draga mea! ,3
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Asa este, Ileana 🙂
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No, love does not hurt but the loss of love or someone we love hurts.You are right in that who we love becomes the person to whom we compare others. A post with many deep ideas today, Monica. Cheers. 😊
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Thank you, Christopher xoxo
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=)
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A beautiful sentiment, if more people lived with a loving heart, maybe wars would be a thing of the past xx
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Too beautiful to be true…
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Wonderful thoughts, Monica. If only the world would take these thoughts to heart.
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If only… Thank you so much, Rob 🙂
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So lovely dear xx
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xoxo ❤
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Xo
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so true dear, why let hatred overpower love. Great post 🙂
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I am Happy you liked it, Arohii ❤ xoxo
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Ahhhhh love. Love is such a loaded word. I don’t know about your first language, but I believe that love is such a vague word in the English language. I love the idea that C.S. Lewis puts forth in his book, “The Four Loves” based on the four words used for love in Greek. I wrote a post on it once. If interested, you can find it here:
https://stacilys.wordpress.com/2014/02/14/love/
Have a wonderful weekend Monica.
🙂
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Interesting. No, we do not have so many words for love in Romania. Meanings, yes. Words, no.
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Yes, “Monique”, Hatred is the source of many evils. 😦
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For sure ^..^
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Divine! You are great, great, great! So nice writter and so wisdom! I so agree with you!
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Thank you very much, Ann. Your words make me blush. I have no words to answer you ❤
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When we open our Hearts to Love, Monica, we are opening ourselves to hurt. There is so much pain when those we Love leave or when someone we Love goes through a Dark Side of Life. So many people put a wall up instead of Loving as they cruise along in Life. But OH how much they are missing!!! LOVE is THE answer to everything and is the ONLY way to really Live Life!!! Great post, my friend!! Thank you! ❤
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Yes, Amy, you’re right, LOVE is THE answer to everything. I totally agree with you my dear friend. Your words are always so calm and full of wisdom
Thank you again, Amy
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I am speechless, Amy. You’re so right. I thank you for your wise words ❤
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Love is a powerful force. If only there were more of it in this world….
Beautiful post!
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Yes, it is 🙂 Thanks for your beautiful words ❤
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Thank you 🙂
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This is so very true – love doesn’t hurt at all, just it’s removal for whatever reasons. Insightful and wise writing my friend. 🙂
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Thank you very much. I am glad you liked my vision 🙂
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You are welcome, my friend. I did, very much 🙂
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You are right!! ❤
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I think most do not know how to love.
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I never thought like that and I think you’re right 🙂
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Beautiful thoughts
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Many thanks for your kind words 🙂
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I appreciate your wonderful blog ~https://goo.gl/LU6fZ8
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There is love in everything. Such a beautiful blog… xo
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Aww, Jane ❤ Your words are always so kind 🙂
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Un grand bonjour en ce dimanche
Chez moi celui-ci est pluvieux et bien gris
Mon petit passage sur ton magnifique blog
Pour embellir ta journée
Ou les mots ne sont que douceur
Quelques mots de bonheur
Pour que ta journée soit de couleur
Avec toute mon Amitié
Je te souhaite une agréable journée
En t’offrant cette rose en cadeau
Bisous amicales Bernard
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Merci encore pour vos paroles chaleureuses, Bernard. Bon week-end!
Monica
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Proud of you Monica, such a matured topic discussed with it’s intensity.. Keep rocking 🙂 Listen to “Photograph” by Ed Shareen. Good day!
Josh
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Thanks for your beautiful words, Josh, and for the fact that you encourage me all the time 🙂
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Welcome 🙂
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